Have Everything You Want

Have your say… leave a comment below after you read!

You can have everything you want.

If you don't believe that this is true, your belief is the main reason that you don’t have all the good things you want in life. If you really want more- more friends, more fun, more love, more money, more fulfilment, you need to accept the fact that it is possible.

Thinking that you can’t have everything you want blocks you from having what you want in several ways.

Firstly, most of us don’t like to be proven wrong. If you have declared that there is no way you can have a villa in Spain and a six-figure income, you are not going to go out and make those things happen. Why would you try to prove yourself wrong?

It’s not only going to upset your own need to be right (often at the expense of being happy), but it would cause you to ‘lose face’ among all the friends to whom you have stated your beliefs.

This is a very clear case of needing to adjust your thinking, and to choose being happy over being right.

Actually, if you change your beliefs to accept that it is possible to have everything you want, then you can go ahead, create abundance and still be right!

It is also a matter of practicality. If you believe that something is impossible for you to have, it would be silly to take steps towards achieving it, right?

Most of us won’t waste our time and energy trying to do something that we believe we simply cannot do. And if you don’t try to create something, there is definitely a very small chance that it will happen on its own. We create our own self-fulfilling prophesies in this manner.

Another way that we limit our ability to have more abundance in our lives is by creating an energy block. Our beliefs make a magnetic force field around us, and this field can either attract or repel.

Believing that something isn’t possible repels that thing from entering your life. By changing your beliefs to accept that you can have more good things in your life, you change your energy field. Just opening your mind a little to the fact that it may be possible to have more, you begin dissolving the energy that repels abundance.

To really begin experiencing everything you want in your life though, you need to truly believe that you can have these things, and thereby create a powerful positive energy field that attracts abundance.

So how do you go from being in a mindset of ‘this is as good as it gets,’ to a mindset of knowing that you can create unlimited abundance?

It’s simple but it takes time, patience, and commitment. The first step to changing beliefs, and thereby changing any aspect of your life, is to make a choice to change.

Decide that the beliefs you currently have are not serving you well, and have no logical basis (who says you can’t have everything? There are many people who do have everything they want- mainly because they believe they can).

Understand that your limiting beliefs need to be replaced with positive beliefs. You cannot simply rid yourself of a belief or a habit- you need to replace it with a new one. A healthy, positive new belief or habit.

Once you have committed to changing your limiting beliefs, you need to let them go. Accept that they are not true, not needed, and the time has come to get rid of them.

You then need to create the new beliefs that you will use to replace the old ones. The most effective way to create new beliefs is with the use of affirmations. This means repeating a powerful positive statement to yourself over and over again until it becomes part of your belief system. For example, ‘I am creating a life of abundance,’ or ‘I am becoming happier every day and achieving everything my heart desires.’ It is important that you phrase your affirmations actively in the present tense. State that what you want is happening now!

You probably won’t believe it at first. That’s okay, just keep saying it. Repeatedly. Eventually you will find that your thinking begins to shift, and that the affirmation you are saying doesn’t sound so ridiculous.

Sooner or later you will come to believe it. All of our beliefs are a result of hearing or thinking something repeatedly- you could almost say we are brainwashed. Changing your beliefs is undoing the brainwashing and teaching yourself beliefs that you actually choose to have, and that will serve you in your quest for happiness.

If you want more in your life, start changing the beliefs that are holding you back. It really is possible to have everything you want, and to live the life of your dreams. So, start believing and keep dreaming!