"Amanda Answers" -
My Personal Answer to YOUR Question

I am now taking selected questions that people ask me, and answering them in a way that can benefit not only the person asking, but others who may have similar situations in their lives.

If your question is selected, I will answer it as fully as possible on an upcoming page on my site. I will publish your question and just your first name and country along with my answer.

If you would like to receive my personal assistance free in this way, please fill in the form at the bottom of this page.

Read Others' Questions and Answers

Troubled Family Relationships -Amanda Answers #1

This first question featured in “Amanda Answers” comes from Carol in Kenya, and is about troubled family relationships. Carol wrote to me in response to my recent article Giving Up On Love.

Carol says, “Thank you so much for you are much inspiring my life. For sure to me I have already given up on love between me and my family members. It’s like I have natural hatred between my uncle and his family we never communicate. I try to forgive and forget but every time I feel burdened. Please advise me on what to do.”

Transcending Boundaries -Amanda Answers #2

Transcending boundaries begins by ceasing to fight against them, and instead, focusing on harnessing the power of our thoughts to create instant mental freedom and to attract more physical freedom.

This article is in response to the question submitted by Thoi in Vietnam. Thoi wrote: "There are so many boundaries in our life and how can we liberate ourselves from those to reach the thorough freedom?"

Changing Profession - Amanda Answers #3

Luciana from Chile writes, "Hi Amanda, I am turning 35 in 2 more months and would love to change my profession. I am a translator and been a bilingual secretary all my life...focusing on the intention and not on the "how" I will get there....I am having a lot of trouble...What I am clear on is that I would love something related to helping people and given my age, I am hesitant about a 5 - year degree."

Controlling Emotions - Amanda Answers #4

Controlling emotions rather than being overwhelmed by them is the theme of this question from Kate in Australia. Avoiding over-identifying with feelings, practicing tools and techniques for understanding and processing emotions, and taking things one step at a time are some of the key points I offer in my response.

Getting Over a Breakup - Amanda Answers #5

Getting over a breakup and moving forward into a happy and fulfilling life is the core of this question from Michaela in the U.K. Taking time to make peace with the end of a long relationship and to go through the grieving process, putting focus onto other relationships, creative outlets and physical wellbeing, and beginning to envision a bright future without getting bogged down in trying to figure out how to 'make it happen,' are some of the focal points of my answer.

What Love Means - Amanda Answers #6

Understanding what love means is the basis of this question from Shawnie in the United States.

Shawnie writes,”What is the real meaning of love? How do I show it? What are other words that mean love? I’m troubled with the concepts. I feel lost in everything and need some advice.”

Loser In Love? - Amanda Answers #7

Being a loser in love is the fear that is expressed in this question from Rainier in France. The first thing that I would like to say to him and to anyone who is feeling this way is that the game isn’t over, and that means that it is impossible to be a loser in love or in life.

Rainier sent a detailed question, and I am so happy to have the chance to offer my perspective on the issues that his question raises.

How Long Does It Take for Affirmations to Work? - Amanda Answers #8

Wanting to know how long it takes for affirmations to work is what is expressed in this question from Dineo in South Africa.

The conclusion of my answer is that it is all there for you, and how long it takes to start showing up is simply a matter of how long it takes you to start coming into a place of being able to hold a consistent feeling of positive expectation without countering it with doubtful thoughts too much.

Is It Too Late for My Life to Improve? - Amanda Answers #9

Feelings that it is too late for things to change and intense frustration with circumstances are the underlying thoughts in this question from Scebberish in the United States.

One of the key points I share is that the only thing that takes time in stepping into the life you want is aligning yourself with that life. This means getting into a mindset where you truly believe that you can and will have everything you want, and that only good can come to you.

Amanda, What Are Your Religious Beliefs? – Amanda Answers #10

My religious beliefs are something I get asked about from time to time, and even though I have touched on these in some of the articles on my site, for anyone that would like a clearer understanding of my beliefs, and most importantly how these impact my work, I would like to share my response to the following email from a reader.

Feeling Rejected and Wondering Why – Amanda Answers #11

Feeling rejected is something that most of us experience at some point in our lives. Understanding the dynamics of this situation, and how to move past it form the basis of this article which is in response to a question from Rushabh in India.

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